Damn it, I just had enough of those people who are constantly bullying others any where they please; both online and in real life.
It seriously breaks my heart to see others bullied and wishing that this could all disappear in a flash in any way possible. And the fact that those bullies won't stop really angers me. I want to reach out to those people, but it seems impossible because it happens almost every single day! That's why I decided to rant in this journal. I don't care if you think this is a pointless thing to talk about and start calling me an idiot for this. I want to speak out my thoughts for once in my life.Seriously, why do people always bully others? Do they bully others because they think it's "fun"? Do they bully others to make themselves feel or appear "better"? Do they bully others because they feel like others don't deserve to be respected? Do they bully others because they are different than themselves? I swear, there tends to be many reasons as to why bullying occurs. However, there is still no excuse to treat others as if they were nothing but trash.
So what if other people are different? Don't degrade them just because they are "different" or that you think it's fun.
We are all still human beings. We are all still the same in different ways. Everyone has their different ways, different beliefs, different appearances, different opinions, different interest, different hobbies, and different lifestyles. Just accept it. Respect them as a fellow human being. Not EVERYTHING
is supposed to be the same and that's life. Wouldn't life be boring if everything was exactly the same?
And if you think bullying others is "fun", then how about wondering how "fun" it is to be the victim of it. Those people may not know how much harm they're causing, while some do. I really don't understand why must some people crave for so much power that they would treat everyone like garbage.
Don't start bullying them because of their differences. What if a close friend or family member of yours suddenly had that difference, would you instantly hate their guts and wish they would be dead? Accept those differences because life can be more interesting that way. If you still couldn't accept those differences, then just leave them be. If they're happy with themselves, then don't stop them. Try finding someone else. Don't attack those people just because they are happy being who they truly are, doing what they love. How about at least trying to stop conflict peacefully? What happened to that? I mean, I disliked this person in my class, but I never expressed it. Instead, I tried my best to keep calm and tried to be friendly with that person because I did not want any conflicts.
If you don't like a certain person, don't bash them and tell them to die. Just leave them be. Don't start blackmailing them. Don't start spreading terrible rumors about them. Don't start broadcasting their deepest secrets to everyone.
How the hell would you feel if it was YOU
instead? You would definitely not like the feeling that everyone is against you. Depression isn't something that you'd enjoy feeling either. You don't know what those people you've hurt are going through until YOU
are the one experiencing it. Do you really want to go that far? Trust me, you would wish that you could end it all if you did.
There are some people who would use the internet so they won't get hurt, but others won't stop cyber bullying either. Why can't anyone keep peace anywhere? Damn it, what's wrong with society today?
Bullying others does NOT
make those people better than anyone else. It makes them a horrible person. We're called humans, right? However, the word "humanity" also means the quality or state of being kind to other people or to animals, but not everyone seem to have that humanity. I find that a bit ironic.
But if you are the victim... Please, don't contemplate about ending it all in the worst way. Remember, life always tend to suck, but if you decide to go with it and try to stay positive, you will find something good coming to your life
. That's how I see it anyway, and that thought always kept me from committing suicide myself. I had always thought of it because I always thought that I was alone and no one would care if I disappeared, and I always got so close to actually doing it. But I would think it over... I would end up thinking that there is always something good that would happen eventually and make everyone's life worthwhile.Imagine that you are walking somewhere, in a beautiful forest perhaps... Then, you come across a tunnel and there's no way around it but through it. In that tunnel, there are sharp rocks, scary sounds, cold atmosphere, and vicious animals ready to attack. They may hurt you, but stay strong and keep on going because soon, you'll be out of that dark tunnel and see how beautiful life out there can be if you keep on trying and working hard.Stay strong. If you are giving into those bullies, you're letting them win. Fight back. Don't let them win. Let them know that you are strong and that no matter what they do, you'll stay strong. If you feel like you're losing, remember that something amazing will happen in your life soon and that they are just an obstacle to a happy life.
You can beat that obstacle.
If you feel alone, remember that there are others who cares about you. Even if you don't know it or think there isn't anyone who would care, there is. You may not know it, but I am one of them. Don't give up on yourself, because if you leave, many would miss you even if you doubt it.
You aren't alone, remember that, alright?